RIP IT OFF | Purity Culture Healing, Sex in Christian Marriage, Christian Wife Intimacy, Marriage Communication, Biblical Sex
🩹 Rip It Off with Michelle Castro
You followed the rules. You saved yourself for marriage. You wore the ring, signed the contract, stayed pure — and you love Jesus and your husband.
So why does sex still feel so complicated?
Rip It Off is biblical sexual discipleship for Christian wives who grew up in purity culture and are ready to reclaim God's design for desire, pleasure, and intimacy in marriage — without shame.
Each week, Michelle Castro delivers bold, biblical teaching on Christian sexuality, sex in Christian marriage, and the theology that shapes how you experience desire, pleasure, and connection as a wife. This is not surface-level marriage advice. This is the conversation the church never had with you.
Inside each episode, we dismantle purity culture lies, correct bad theology around sex, and rebuild a biblical view of intimacy rooted in Scripture — not silence.
You'll learn:
- What the Bible actually says about female desire and God's design for pleasure
- Why waiting until marriage did not break you — but silence might have
- How to rebuild intimacy in your marriage after years of suppression or shutdown
- How to start the conversation with your husband you've never known how to have
- The difference between lust and holy, God-designed longing
- Why your desire is not sin — it is pre-fall design
If you're a Christian wife in your 30s, 40s, or 50s who is done carrying shame that was never yours to hold — this podcast is for you.
New episodes every Thursday.
Author of Naked & Unashamed and the upcoming Good Girls, Bad Theology — available fall 2026.
Episodes
![Healing After Abortion: From Shame to Redemption [ft. Brittany Poppe] // 3](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/ep-logo/pbblog20459885/3_300x300.jpg)
Apr 3, 2025
Apr 3, 2025
30 min
Brittany Poppe shares her powerful story of healing after abortion, how it impacted her marriage, and how God redefined intimacy in her life. This conversation is raw, redemptive, and packed with grace. Whether you’ve faced abortion, shame, or silence—this episode reminds you: redemption is real.
Topics Covered:
The spiritual weight of abortion and how God meets us there
Navigating marriage and intimacy after deep pain
Rebuilding trust in yourself, your body, and God
Why your story matters—and you are not alone
✨ This episode is for you if you’ve ever wondered…
Can God really forgive me after abortion?
Why do I still struggle with intimacy, even in marriage?
Is it possible to overcome the shame purity culture left behind?
How can I talk to my kids about sex in a way that’s truthful AND grace-filled?
💛 Friend, this is the real stuff—the gritty, healing, Jesus-centered truth you didn’t know you needed. Press play and let’s rip it off.
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🙌 Connect with Brittany Poppe:🌐 Website: brittanypoppe.com🎧 Podcast: Does God Forgive Abortion?📸 Instagram: @brittanypoppe🎧 Hear Brittany’s Full Story: Growth Against the Grain Podcast - Episode 318
👉🏻 CONNECT WITH MICHELLE 💰 Save 10% with Budget Besties Simplified Budget System - use code MICHELLE☕️ Buy Me a Coffee - Love the podcast, consider supporting RIP IT OFF 📖 Naked & Unashamed: A 31-Day Journey - save 10% with code SAVE10 💌 Free Download: 5 Lies Christian Women Believe About Sex & Marriage ⭐ Leave a Review on Apple Podcasts - Help other Christian wives find healing and biblical truth about intimacy. 📲 Instagram: @ripitoffpodcast 📩 Speaking & guest inquiries: ripitoffpodcast@gmail.com
![Purity Culture Wrecked My View of Sex—Here’s How God Rebuilt It [ ft Alana & Tiera from Kingdom Sexuality] // 2](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/ep-logo/pbblog20459885/2_300x300.jpg)
Apr 3, 2025
Apr 3, 2025
29 min
Let’s talk about the real damage purity culture left behind. In this episode, Michelle and guests Alana & Tiera (Kingdom Sexuality Podcast) share how they’re redefining intimacy, overcoming shame, and embracing God’s good design for sex in marriage.
You’ll Learn:
What purity culture got wrong (and what it didn’t)
How to start healing your beliefs around sex
Why intimacy is more than just sex
What it looks like to walk in wholeness and pleasure as a Christian wife
Sound Bites:
“We are allowed to talk about this.”
“God just opens the doors to where you need to go.”
“God created this. He wants this.”
“This is a way that you can actually just fully relax.”
“You need to communicate more to your husband.”
Resources:
Visit Kingdom Sexuality Ministry at kingdomsexualityministry.com for more resources, sex challenges, and their membership club.
Join the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast Community on Facebook to connect with others and dive into meaningful conversations.
Follow Kingdom Sexuality on Instagram for more content on Christian sexuality and marriage.
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⭐️ SEX & INTIMACY ARE NOT THE SAME THING! GET YOUR FREE DOWNLOAD ⭐️
👉🏻 CONNECT WITH MICHELLE 💰 Save 10% with Budget Besties Simplified Budget System - use code MICHELLE☕️ Buy Me a Coffee - Love the podcast, consider supporting RIP IT OFF 📖 Naked & Unashamed: A 31-Day Journey - save 10% with code SAVE10 💌 Free Download: 5 Lies Christian Women Believe About Sex & Marriage ⭐ Leave a Review on Apple Podcasts - Help other Christian wives find healing and biblical truth about intimacy. 📲 Instagram: @ripitoffpodcast 📩 Speaking & guest inquiries: ripitoffpodcast@gmail.com

Apr 3, 2025
Apr 3, 2025
19 min
In this premiere episode of Rip It Off, Michelle Castro—a wife, girl mom, and redeemed “good Christian girl”—gets real about the shame, confusion, and wrong theology so many Christian women carry into marriage when it comes to sex and intimacy. She shares her personal journey of breaking free, hearing God’s call, and launching a new conversation rooted in biblical truth. If you’ve ever felt stuck, ashamed, or disconnected in your marriage, this episode is your fresh start. Let’s rip off the shame and step into freedom—together.
✨ Topics Covered:
Growing up in the church with limited teaching on intimacy
Breaking free from shame and purity culture
God’s true design for sex and marriage
The lies the enemy uses to steal intimacy
Foundational scriptures for healing and hope
📖 Pillar Verses:
Genesis 2:24
John 10:10
Romans 8:1
Deuteronomy 31:8
Jeremiah 32:27
Song of Solomon 4:7
⭐️ SEX & INTIMACY ARE NOT THE SAME - GET THE FREE DOWNLOAD ⭐️
👉🏻 CONNECT WITH MICHELLE 💰 Save 10% with Budget Besties Simplified Budget System - use code MICHELLE☕️ Buy Me a Coffee - Love the podcast, consider supporting RIP IT OFF 📖 Naked & Unashamed: A 31-Day Journey - save 10% with code SAVE10 💌 Free Download: 5 Lies Christian Women Believe About Sex & Marriage ⭐ Leave a Review on Apple Podcasts - Help other Christian wives find healing and biblical truth about intimacy. 📲 Instagram: @ripitoffpodcast 📩 Speaking & guest inquiries: ripitoffpodcast@gmail.com

Mar 17, 2025
Mar 17, 2025
3 min
🎙 Welcome to the Rip It Off Podcast!
Hey friend! I’m Michelle Castro—wife, mom, and your resident bandaid ripper, ready to have the hard conversations about sex, marriage, and biblical intimacy.
For too long, Christian women have been weighed down by purity culture baggage, shame, and confusion when it comes to sex in marriage. But here’s the truth: God designed sex to be good, joyful, and a powerful connection in marriage. It’s time to break free from fear and step into the beauty of His design!
What You Can Expect from This Podcast:
💛 Biblical truth about sex, intimacy, and marriage🔥 Real, raw, and honest conversations—no more tiptoeing around the tough stuff!💬 Encouragement from experts—authors, counselors, and real women like you✨ Topics like: keeping passion alive, overcoming shame, rebuilding intimacy, body confidence, and yes… even spicing things up in a God-honoring way!
🚨 New episodes drop every Thursday! Subscribe now so you never miss an episode.
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📲 Let’s connect!📧 Email: itsmemichellecastro@gmail.com🎙 Podcast: 📺 YouTube: @itsmemichellecastro📸 Instagram: @itsmemichellecastro or @ripitoffpodcast
I can’t wait to rip off the lies and step into freedom, truth, and joy—together! 💛
👉🏻 CONNECT WITH MICHELLE 💰 Save 10% with Budget Besties Simplified Budget System - use code MICHELLE☕️ Buy Me a Coffee - Love the podcast, consider supporting RIP IT OFF 📖 Naked & Unashamed: A 31-Day Journey - save 10% with code SAVE10 💌 Free Download: 5 Lies Christian Women Believe About Sex & Marriage ⭐ Leave a Review on Apple Podcasts - Help other Christian wives find healing and biblical truth about intimacy. 📲 Instagram: @ripitoffpodcast 📩 Speaking & guest inquiries: ripitoffpodcast@gmail.com








