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When the Past Haunts Your Marriage: Breaking Soul Ties for Good // Summer Minisode 4

You love Jesus. You love your husband. And yet… certain memories still whisper, tempt, and tug. You’ve moved on—but your past hasn’t. What gives?! This episode is your wake-up call and your healing balm, friend. That sexual sin, that soul tie, that secret? It doesn’t get to define you anymore. 🙌
🔥 EPISODE SUMMARY:In this power-packed mini-episode of the RIP IT OFF podcast, Michelle Castro takes us deep into a truth too many Christian wives quietly carry: the past doesn’t always stay in the past. Whether it’s an ex, an old hookup, pornography, or a boundary you swore you’d never cross—those soul-level entanglements can linger. But hear this loud and clear: Jesus doesn’t just forgive you. He frees you.
If you’ve ever found yourself emotionally distant, mentally comparing, or spiritually stuck, this is for you. Michelle unpacks the reality of soul ties, the difference between guilt and conviction, and the radical promise of total redemption. You don’t have to pretend it didn’t happen. You get to bring it to the light and walk in freedom.
✨ WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
What soul ties really are—and how they form
Why your past may still feel present in your marriage
The spiritual and emotional residue of sexual sin (even long ago)
How to talk to your husband about your past (with wisdom + grace)
Practical steps to renounce, release, and reclaim your identity
The freedom Jesus promises—not just for your behavior, but for your wholeness
🙌 CALL TO ACTION:If this episode hit home, don’t stay silent. Take it to Jesus. Take it to someone safe. And take the next step: grab your copy of the Naked and Unashamed: 31 Day Journey 👉 bit.ly/31DayJourney and use code NAKED10 to save 10%.
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Exhaustion Isn't Normal: Hope, Hormones & Holiness in Midlife Intimacy [ft. Michelle McCoy] // 15

Feel like you're barely hanging on, running on fumes, and avoiding intimacy because you're just too tired? Sis, you’re not alone—and it’s NOT just your age or hormones. This episode is your wake-up call: the exhaustion you're feeling isn't normal, and God never called you to live worn out and disconnected!
💬 Episode Summary:In this powerhouse episode, Michelle Castro sits down with holistic health coach Michelle McCoy to bust the lies women believe about midlife, marriage, and intimacy. From brain fog and fatigue to feeling disconnected in your marriage, they pull back the curtain on the real struggles Christian wives face—and how to rise above them. Whether you're in perimenopause, dealing with pelvic pain, or wondering why your libido left the building, this conversation will meet you right where you are. There’s hope, healing, and a whole lot of truth packed in here!
💡 What You'll Learn:
The BIG lie women believe about midlife exhaustion—and how to rip it off
What high-functioning fatigue looks like (yep, that might be you!)
How physical health and intimacy are deeply connected
The truth about painful sex, vaginal dryness, and pelvic floor issues
Why communication with your husband is critical—and how to start
How to rest God’s way without guilt or hustle
Simple, soul-honoring steps to rebuild energy and joy
🙌 Call to Action:Friend, your body, marriage, and soul were made for more than survival mode. You were designed to THRIVE. If this hit home, don’t keep it to yourself—share this episode with a sister who needs some serious hope. 🎧 And if you're ready to go deeper into God's design for intimacy, grab your seat inside Naked & Unashamed—the course that’s setting Christian wives FREE in their bedroom and beyond!
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🔑 Keywords:Christian marriage, midlife intimacy, perimenopause fatigue, Christian wives, marriage and sex, holistic health, brain fog, biblical rest, pelvic floor, Christian womanhood, intimacy over 40

God, Sex & Exhaustion: Why Desire Feels Out of Reach // Summer Minisode 3

📣 START HERE:If this episode stirred something in you—don't ignore it. Start your healing journey today with the Naked and Unashamed: 31-Day Journey and begin ripping off the lies that have kept your heart shut down. Grab your copy at bit.ly/31dayjourney and use code NAKED10 to save 10%!
✨ Plus, download my FREE resource: 13 Types of IntimacyLet’s rediscover what God actually meant by intimacy—together.

How to Talk to Your Kids About Pornography WITHOUT Shame or Making it Weird [ft. Greta Eskridge] // 14

Mama, we’re going there today—and you are NOT alone. If you’ve ever whispered the word “porn” and hoped your kids never asked questions, this episode is your breakthrough moment. We’re ditching the shame, breaking generational silence, and replacing fear with freedom.
💬 Episode Summary:In this powerful and grace-filled episode, Michelle sits down with author, speaker, and truth-teller Greta Eskridge to tackle one of the hardest topics in Christian parenting: pornography. Greta shares her raw, redemptive journey of healing from her husband’s porn addiction and affair—offering wisdom, vulnerability, and real-life tools to help parents lead their children with courage and compassion. This isn’t about fear-mongering. It’s about being proactive, biblical, and bold in a world where exposure to porn is not a matter of if—but when.
Greta equips you with conversation starters for little ones and teens alike, and reminds every mama listening: God chose YOU on purpose to guide your kids through these conversations. His grace is enough, no matter where your family’s been.
📌 In This Episode, You'll Learn:
Why healing from porn addiction is a process, not a one-time event—and how God redeems the journey
How to begin safe, age-appropriate conversations with kids as young as 3
The truth about porn’s accessibility, and why even daughters are at risk
What to do if your child has already been exposed (hint: it’s not too late)
How to shift from a shame-based silence to a home full of openness, compassion, and truth
The 3-step plan every kid needs: Stop. Walk. Talk.
Why your family’s culture of intimacy, honesty, and grace matters more than ever
🙌 Call to Action:Mama, it’s time to rip off the lie that says this topic is too much, too awkward, or too late. You were chosen to lead your family through this with truth and tenderness. Grab Greta’s book It’s Time to Talk to Your Kids About Porn—and start those conversations today. God's not overwhelmed—and you don’t have to be either. You’ve got this. 💪✨
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🔑 Keywords:Christian parenting, talking to kids about porn, Greta Eskridge, Christian marriage, faith-based parenting, biblical intimacy, raising kids in purity, porn addiction recovery, Christian women, family tech boundaries, gospel hope, healing from betrayal

You’re Allowed to Want It: Permission to Initiate Intimacy // Summer Minisode 2

Have you ever felt awkward, ashamed, or even “too much” for wanting your husband? For asking for intimacy? For daring to go first? Girl, you’re not broken—you’re brave. And in this mini-soad, we’re ripping off one of the biggest lies that’s kept Christian wives silent in their bedrooms for way too long.
💬 EPISODE SUMMARY:In today’s Summer Minisode, Michelle is tearing into a topic that makes a lot of Christian women squirm: initiating sex. Somewhere along the way, we were sold the idea that desire in women is shameful, even sinful—but that’s not what God says. You’ll hear powerful truth about why desiring your husband is not desperate, and how initiating intimacy is actually a beautiful, bold expression of connection and honesty in marriage.
This bite-sized truth bomb is ripped straight from the Naked and Unashamed 31-day journey—a must-have for Christian women ready to ditch performance and reclaim passion.
✨ WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
Why initiating sex doesn’t make you desperate—it makes you connected
How cultural and church narratives have misled Christian women about desire
Why your desire is designed by God and has a holy place in your marriage
Ways to step into boldness even if it feels awkward or unfamiliar
A reminder that your voice and needs belong in your bedroom
🙌 CALL TO ACTION:Feeling stirred up? GOOD. Don’t stop here—grab your copy of Naked and Unashamed, the 31-day journey for Christian women ready to stop faking it, start healing, and finally reclaim the joy and beauty of intimacy.
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🔑 KEYWORDS:Christian marriage, intimacy in Christian marriage, initiating sex, biblical intimacy, Christian wives and desire, sex in marriage, God’s design for intimacy, reclaiming intimacy, Christian womanhood, healing marriage intimacy

Can God Heal My Marriage After Betrayal? Yes—Here’s Proof [ft. Lisa Limehouse] // 13

You've just discovered the unthinkable. Betrayal. Broken vows. And your heart is screaming, "Can anything beautiful come from this mess?" Sis, the answer is YES—because our God is a Redeemer of the wreckage. In this episode, we pull back the curtain on one woman’s raw, redemptive journey through infidelity to unimaginable restoration.
💔 Episode Summary:Today’s guest is Lisa Limehouse—certified coach, global podcast host of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, and a woman who’s lived both sides of betrayal. But this isn’t just a story of devastation—it’s a story of resurrection. Lisa walks us through her shock discovery of her husband’s affair, the separation, the heartbreak… and the complete, miraculous turnaround only God could write.
From calling off a divorce to coaching other couples through sexual trauma and healing, Lisa unpacks the hard truths, the hopeful promises, and the biblical blueprint for rebuilding trust, connection, and yes—even a fulfilling sex life—after betrayal. If you’ve ever wondered if God can make beauty from ashes, friend, you need this conversation.
✨ What You’ll Learn:
Why betrayal doesn't disqualify your marriage from God's redemptive plan
The top 3 lies couples believe about sex after betrayal—and the truth that sets them free
How true healing starts with the individual before it can touch the marriage
What the Bible says about intimacy, oneness, and rebuilding connection God’s way
Five practical, powerful steps to restore emotional and physical intimacy
Why you must invite God into your healing and your bedroom (yep, we went there!)
How Lisa and her husband lead couples through immersive 2-day intensives for deep healing
🙌 Call to Action:Friend, don’t stay stuck in the lies of shame, fear, or hopelessness. You are not alone, and your marriage is not beyond repair. God’s redemption story may look different than you imagined, but it will always be good. Reclaim your intimacy, your identity, and your hope—starting today. 💥
👣 Let’s keep walking this road together:
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🔑 Keywords:Christian marriage healing, betrayal trauma recovery, godly intimacy, sex after infidelity, biblical marriage restoration, Christian wife encouragement, emotional safety in marriage, Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa Limehouse, Michelle Castro podcast

Your Body Isn’t the Problem: Reclaiming Confidence in the Bedroom // Summer Minisode 1

🚨 START HERE, FRIEND!Are you ready to stop hiding, stop second-guessing, and finally step into the freedom God designed for your marriage bed? Then grab your copy of Naked and Unashamed: A 31-Day Journey right now and start healing what shame has stolen.
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Can you relate?Have you ever turned off the lights, braced yourself, and tried to disappear in your own marriage bed? If body image battles have whispered lies that your shape is a problem or your worth is tied to your waistline—this one’s for you. It’s time to rip off the shame and walk boldly in the truth that your body is not a burden—it’s a blessing.
💬 EPISODE SUMMARY:In this power-packed mini-sode, Michelle Castro kicks off the summer series with a truth bomb that every Christian wife needs to hear: your body is not ruining your sex life—shame is. Drawing straight from her new ebook Naked and Unashamed, Michelle gets raw and real about the struggles women face when it comes to body image, desire, and confidence in intimacy.
With her signature boldness and Biblical grounding, Michelle speaks directly into the heart of every woman who has ever hidden under the covers, questioned her worth, or felt unworthy of pleasure. From postpartum curves to perimenopause changes, she reminds us what God actually says about our bodies—and it's a far cry from what the world or our inner critic might say.
✨ YOU’LL LEARN:
Why your thighs, stretch marks, or shape were never the problem
How shame sneaks into the bedroom and how to kick it out
What Genesis 1 reveals about the truth and beauty of your body
How to believe your husband when he says you’re beautiful
Where the line is between honoring your body and obsessing over it
How to fuel your body with care without making it an idol
The truth about God’s design for intimacy—without guilt or hiding
💥 READY FOR MORE TRUTH?Friend, it’s time to stop apologizing for the body God called very good. If you’re ready to reclaim pleasure and redeem the design for intimacy in your marriage, grab your copy of Naked and Unashamed: A 31-Day Journey today. Use code launch10 by June 10th to save $10!
Let’s keep this truth train rolling—don’t miss next week’s mini-sode: "Initiating Without Shame" 👀
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🔑 KEYWORDS:Christian marriage, body image and intimacy, Christian wives, biblical intimacy, reclaiming pleasure, Christian sex podcast, sex and shame, confidence in marriage, female desire, gospel and body image, Genesis and intimacy

What the Bible Says About Sex: Top 5 Questions Christian Wives Google [solo] // 12

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Sex, Money & Marriage: The Conversation Every Christian Couple Needs [ft Budget Besties] // 11

Money and sex—two of the most avoided topics in marriages… and church. But in this wildly honest and refreshingly real episode of RIP IT OFF, host Michelle Castro sits down with Shana and Vanessa, aka The Budget Besties, to rip the shame and silence off these taboo subjects.
From naked budget meetings (yes, really) to breaking generational money mindsets, this episode dives deep into how financial intimacy can radically transform not just your bank account—but your marriage. The trio also tackle faith-based money myths, the emotional baggage we bring into our marriages, and why learning to manage your money is one of the most powerful ways to honor God’s calling.
Whether you're dealing with credit card chaos, silent financial stress, or that awkward “we need to talk” money convo with your spouse—this episode is your safe, fun, Jesus-filled permission slip to get real and get free.
🔥 What You’ll Learn:
The surprising connection between financial and sexual intimacy
Why budgeting isn't about restriction—it's about restoration
How Christian women can honor God by mastering their money
What financial peace really looks like (hint: it’s not just a bigger paycheck)
Why “I’m just bad with money” is a lie you have to rip off
💡 Big Takeaways:
Money is not neutral—it’s either running your life or serving your purpose.
Shame-free systems win: Discover how The Budget Besties help couples automate their finances, reduce conflict, and reclaim peace.
Dream again: A budget isn’t a prison—it’s a pathway to the life (and calling) you were created for.
Get your spouse on board—even if it starts with bourbon and a budget.
📢 Mentioned in This Episode:
The Budget Besties' life-changing budgeting system
The parable of the talents + how stewardship is deeply spiritual
Financial intimacy as 1 of 13 kinds of intimacy in marriage
How to bring your husband into the money convo (without a fight)
🎁 Special Offer:Ready to ditch the money stress and start stewarding with confidence?Use code: MICHELLE to save 10% when you visit👉 budgetbesties.com/Michelle
🔗 Connect with Today’s Guests:👯‍♀️ The Budget BestiesWebsite: budgetbesties.comInstagram: @thebudgetbestiesPodcast: Bougie on a Budget
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If You Don’t Talk to Your Kids About Sex, the World Will [ft. Kristen Miele - Sex Ed Reclaimed] // 10

What if the greatest threat to your child’s understanding of sex is your silence? Christian mama, it’s time to rip off the lies and take back what the enemy tried to twist. You don’t have to dread “the talk”—you can start a discipleship-driven conversation that’s holy, honest, and life-giving. This episode is your wake-up call.
💬 EPISODE SUMMARY:In this eye-opening and hope-filled conversation, Michelle Castro sits down with Kristen Miele, founder of Sex Ed Reclaimed, to shatter the myth that sex ed and Christianity are at odds. Kristen shares her powerful journey from avoiding public speaking to becoming a trusted voice in biblical sexuality education. Together, they dive deep into the wounds left by silence, fear-based teaching, and purity culture—and how Christian parents can confidently, biblically, and practically reclaim this conversation in their homes.
This isn’t about having “the talk”—it’s about building a legacy of truth and trust, one loving, age-appropriate moment at a time.
🎯 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
Why God designed you—not TikTok—to teach your kids about sex
How shame, silence, and fear have damaged Christian families for generations
The surprising connection between intimacy, identity, and discipleship
How to use everyday moments to open up holy conversations
Why reclaiming sex education is critical for the next generation of believers
Practical, gospel-centered tools that make it easier than you think
🙌 Action Starts Here:Sis, the enemy has been loud long enough. It’s your voice your kids need most. Don’t wait another day to start the conversation. Dive deeper with Kristen’s incredible resources at sexedreclaimed.com, and start rewriting your family’s narrative around sex and intimacy—God’s way. 👏
🔗 KRISTEN MIELE | SEX ED RECLAIMED
🌐 Website & Curriculum Access: sexedreclaimed.com📸 Instagram: @sexedreclaimed👍 Facebook: Sex Ed Reclaimed on Facebook🎥 TikTok: @sexedreclaimed on TikTok💼 LinkedIn: Kristen Miele on LinkedIn
 
 
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🔑 KEYWORDS:Christian sex ed, biblical intimacy, Christian parenting, reclaiming purity culture, sex ed for Christian kids, Kristen Miele, Sex Ed Reclaimed, Christian family discipleship, faith-based parenting, Christian motherhood, talking to kids about sex, biblical sexuality, Michelle Castro, RIP IT OFF Podcast